More picture day


This is Pop and Mimi in Daniel’s room getting him ready for his pictures.  Note that his hand is in his face, which is pretty typical for him.

Pop, Mimi and Daniel

Pop, Mimi and Daniel

Of course we get these pictures made on what was probably the hottest day yet this year.  It was hot in the studio and hot in the car coming and going.  Poor little Daniel got overheated and needed to air out for a while before getting back in his favorite PJs.  So this provided a rare opportunity to get some pictures of Daniel hanging out in his onesie.  He’s got some really cute arms and legs.

Daniel in onesie

Daniel in onesie

Daniel in onesie

Daniel in onesie



Six week pictures


Daniel will be six weeks old tomorrow, so today Mama, Papa, Pop and Mimi got him all dressed up and took him to get professional pictures.  He slept through the whole thing, as demonstrated in this first picture.  Once the whole business was done and we were leaving, he woke up.

 Papa and Daniel

Papa and Daniel

Papa and Daniel

Papa and Daniel



The Witching Hours


We have yet again, for another day, survived the witching hours.  This is the period of time from midnight to 3:30 a.m. when my sweet angel suffers from his worst colic.  I’m not posting a picture because it would be sad.

Daniel can be inconsolable during parts of this time.  We spend those moments walking the kitchen floor, having conversations.  Daniel’s part of the conversation is at the worst blood curdling screams and, for the past two weeks, little wet tears.  At the best, his part consists of whimpers and frets.

I try to keep my side of the conversation more hopeful.  This was not necessarily the case the first couple of days when my side of the conversation mostly consisted of lots of deparate prayers along the lines of “Please help me, God” and my apologies for my inadequacy as a mother.  We’ve now worked into a routine where my side of the conversation has two major themes.

First, I emphasize to Daniel that things will indeed get better.  I apologize to him for how difficult it is to be a little baby.  He was forced to leave his comfortable, safe waterworld to enter this scary, cruel world that he doesn’t understand.  Poor little babies are born before things are really working properly, so digestive systems can be rough at best.  And little ones can’t understand pain or discomfort.  In general it just kind of stinks to be a baby.  I assure Daniel that it will get better and that we have lots of fun ahead.  There are so many things that we will do together that will be good times.

Second, I try to assure Daniel that he actually has a good life, although it’s hard for him to believe it sometimes.  He has parents that love him and would do anything for him.  He has grandparents and great-grandparents, great aunts and uncles and cousins that all love him and care for him.  He also has lots of “aunts” and “uncles” that are very special and love him very much.  There is just so much love in this world for him.  He will also always have someone to console him and care for him.  He’s always given immediate attention, even if all that can be done is to hold him and sympathize.  I tell him that although it is hard to imagine, there are little babies in the world that aren’t loved like that or that are neglected.  He will never know what that is like.

I know Daniel doesn’t understand my side of these conversations, but hopefully he can sense the gist of it.  By God’s mercy, he won’t remember these trying, confusing months, but the love and attention that he gets will live on and influence him for the rest of his life.



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Daniel and Mama sending video to and chatting with Mimi

Daniel and Mama all proud of themselves - and with reason!



Legal and Domestic


With the arrival of his Social Security card today, Daniel’s just about completed his collection of official paperwork. I guess that makes him legal and official and all that. It really trips me out to see his name printed on forms and whatnot. I guess I’m not dreaming! 🙂

Daniel's birth certificate

Daniel's Social Security card



Picture with Mimi


This morning we got a picture of Daniel with Mimi.

Daniel and Mimi



Kitty Pictures


Papa made fun of Mama when she left her cross stitch pictures hanging in Daniel’s room.  Well, Daniel likes his cross stitch kitties that are hanging over his changing table.  During diaper changes, Daniel loves to stare at his kitties.  Today he was even grinning and laughing about his kitties.

Daniel Kitty Pictures

Daniel Kitty Pictures



Cheeks


Look at the cheeks on our boy.  He is certainly not underfed.

Daniel Cheeks

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